death/grief:

Rebellious mourning: the collective work of grief - edited by cindy milstein

grievers - adrienne maree brown

bearing the unbearable - joanne cacciatore

refuge in grief: heart work for healing collective grief - michelle johnson

the smell of rain on dust: grief and praise - martín prechtel

the wild edge of sorrow - Francis Weller

lost & found: reflections on grief, gratitude, and happiness - kathryn shulz

chelsea granger: art, books, resources

gen grief toolkit

everything dies! A coloring book about life!

trauma:

my grandmother’s hands: racialized trauma and the pathway to mending our hearts and bodies - resmaa menakem

Healing Developmental Trauma - Laurence Heller and Aline LaPierre

Crisis:

​Crisis and Urgent Care: 911​
Santa Cruz Suicide Prevention Services: (877) 663-5433​
Santa Clara County Mental Health Services: (800) 704-0900
Suicide/Crisis Line: (855) 278-4204

Crisis line for trans folks, by trans folks:

​​(877)-565-8860 to reach Trans Lifeline, "a hotline staffed by transgender people for transgender people." If you are unable to reach an operator please hang up and dial 911 or go to your nearest emergency room. For further information please visit: www.translifeline.org